“She spent a life building walls and when she was done she sat there in her “lonely” wondering why nothing grew.” ~Atticus Do you find yourself building walls, and then complaining at the situation you created? Yes. We all do this. When we have been hurt, it is instinctual to want to close off. Protect ourselves. But just like not allowing anyone to help you, because they won’t “do it right,” this is creating your own reality. Until you can be open to letting someone help you, you will always live in your own solitary misery. Where are you creating your own misery? And how can you change it? I know I ...